The Mentally Tough Tennis Player: Why Do I Choke in Big Moments?

Written by Matt Simons, Head Coach and Director of Tennis, The University of Puget Sound

In the challenging world of competitive tennis, many players find themselves grappling with the question, "Why do I choke in big moments?" This phenomenon is not merely a reflection of performance anxiety; it often stems from a deeper disconnect between one's self-worth and their aspirations. You may genuinely want to win, but when the pressure peaks, you might find yourself feeling tight, nervous, or sluggish. This transformation can leave you playing like a different athlete altogether, with shallow breathing, hesitant movements, and a lack of trust in your own shots. The choking behavior you experience often arises when your self-worth does not align with your goals. If you don't believe you are deserving of success, it becomes increasingly likely that you will falter at critical moments.

Your self-worth is a complex system of beliefs shaped by every thought, emotion, and experience in your life, and it acts like a mirror on the tennis court. If you struggle with self-confidence, that struggle will inevitably be reflected in your performance. On the flip side, if you have an unshakeable belief in your abilities—if you view yourself as unstoppable—that mindset will also manifest in your game. Therefore, it's essential to take a step back and examine the moments when you don't get the results you expect . Instead of fearing these occurrences, embrace them as valuable learning opportunities that can provide insights into what is holding you back. By taking control of the fear associated with failure, you can begin to uncover the root causes of your choking and work toward overcoming them.

Tennis is 99% Mental

While opinions may vary, most agree that tennis is at least 70-90% mental…Yet, how much time do you dedicate to strengthening that crucial aspect of your game? If you're like most players, the answer is likely "not enough." Many athletes struggle to develop their mental toughness because they simply don't know how to approach it. They focus primarily on physical training and technical skills, overlooking the pivotal role that the mind plays in achieving success. Recognizing the significance of mental toughness is just the first step; the real challenge lies in implementing effective mental training strategies. Just as you dedicate hours to perfecting your serve or groundstrokes, you must also invest time in your mental game. Techniques like visualization, mindfulness, positive self-talk, and emotional regulation should become integral parts of your routine. By committing to this process, you can unlock your true potential and consistently perform at your best, even in the face of adversity.The Path to Mental Toughness

The Journey of Mental Toughness

Mental toughness is not merely a concept reserved for athletes; it is a mindset applicable to all aspects of life. It defines how we recover from setbacks, confront challenges, and maintain our composure under pressure. Every successful athlete has faced moments of self-doubt, discouragement, and stress. The key differentiator lies in how some individuals confront these adversities, persevering one step at a time, while others succumb to overwhelming feelings. Building mental toughness is not just about resilience; it's about developing the grit to rise after being knocked down, to maintain positivity when negativity seems more convenient, and to refuse to let difficult situations define us.

In this context, it's crucial to recognize that mental toughness requires consistent sharpening, much like a pencil needs to be sharpened to function effectively. Too often, players approach mental toughness only when problems arise, but true mental fortitude is developed through deliberate effort, especially in high-pressure situations. The real work begins when stress levels rise, when mistakes occur, and during crucial moments in matches. It's essential to uncover the patterns that emerge during these times, allowing you to reclaim your personal power and focus on what truly matters.

As you embark on this journey of mental toughness, recognize that you are far more powerful than you may realize. The moment you allow external factors to dictate your mental state, you drain your potential for greatness. Becoming a mentally tough player is about taking back that power on the court and refusing to surrender to the chaos around you or within your own mind. The first steps may be challenging, but as you focus on enhancing your mental game, it will gradually transform from a burden into a superpower. The results you achieve on the court will reflect not just your skills but also your belief in your worthiness and capability. Remember, every opponent you face is skilled and often at a similar level; the true differentiator will often come down to your mental toughness.

Stay tuned for additional blog posts that will dive deeper into the BALANCE mental toughness framework with future options to create your own personal mental toughness plan.

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The Mentally Tough Tennis Player: Unlocking Your Potential Through BALANCE

Written by Matt Simons, Head Coach and Director of Tennis, The University of Puget Sound

In the pursuit of excellence on the tennis court, mental toughness stands as a crucial factor in distinguishing champions from the rest. As we explore an excerpt from my upcoming book, "The Mentally Tough Tennis Player," we recognize that the missing ingredient in mental toughness is often a deep connection to self-worth.

Just like updating the software of a computer to enhance its performance, you can upgrade your mental software to elevate your tennis game and leverage the power within to effect concrete changes in your mindset.

Mental toughness isn't just about finding purpose or learning how to ignore your emotions and feelings…rather it is about reclaiming your personal power on the tennis court and diving into the root causes that are holding you back. A superficial band aid fix for mental toughness will give you superficial results. To dig deep, you have to get uncomfortable and that is where most people will stop.

The Mentally Tough Tennis Player….

• Is resilient and has the ability to bounce back quickly from setbacks and maintain a positive mindset, even in the face of adversity.
• Is focused and is able to stay fully concentrated on the task at hand, blocking out distractions and maintaining a high level of concentration throughout the match.
• Is determined and has a strong drive to succeed and are willing to put in the necessary effort and hard work to achieve their goals.
• Is adaptable and is able to quickly adjust their game plan and strategies based on the changing conditions of the match, such as the opponent's tactics or the weather.
• Is confident and believes in their own abilities and possesses a strong self-belief.
• Is motivated and sets meaningful goals and are committed to continuous improvement.
• Is prepared both mentally and physically and engages in pre-match routines, visualization exercises, and mental rehearsals to enhance their performance.
• Has a positive mindset and maintains a positive outlook, focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on problems, and using setbacks as opportunities for growth.
• Exhibits self-control and is able to shift their mindset to reset and focus by regulating their thoughts, emotions, and actions.
• Manages expectations and does not put unrealistic excessive pressure on themselves to perform perfectly. They understand that mistakes are a part of the game and can handle setbacks without losing their composure.

The mentally tough tennis player knows that the mindset is the secret weapon that sets apart the champions from the rest. The mentally tough tennis player possesses an unshakable mindset that refuses to let external factors derail their focus and performance. They are immune to drains and distractions, whether it's their opponent's mind games, bad line calls, unfavorable weather conditions, or any other elements beyond their control. The mentally tough tennis player understands that their success lies in their ability to control their mind and emotions. They refuse to allow external circumstances to dictate their inner state. They know that getting caught up in frustrations or distractions only hampers their performance and diminishes their chances of victory.

The mentally tough tennis player has developed a laser-like focus that enables them to block out distractions and maintain unwavering concentration on the task at hand. When faced with a challenging opponent, they do not let their mind be swayed by mind games or intimidation tactics. They maintain a strong belief in their abilities and trust their training and preparation. They approach each point with a clear mind, fully present in the moment, and ready to give their best.

…. all of that sounds great, but how do you get there?

A blueprint is needed to construct your personal plan…playing more tennis without a mental toughness plan will only reinforce the level of play you are currently at.

You must also become a student of your mindset and focus on your mental performance as much as you do your physical performance through not only adjusting your self-talk and how you react on the court, but how you envision yourself and goals.  Becoming a mentally tough tennis player will require a conscious shift in how you approach your mindset…the alternative is staying stuck in the same patterns with the same results.

The Path to Mental Toughness

The key lies in creating a personalized mental toughness plan, encapsulated in the acronym BALANCE:

• B – Break out of your negative mindset and self-talk.
• A – Adjust your reaction
• L – Live in the moment
• A – Acceptance
• N – Newton's 3rd Law
• C – Create your new mindset and positive self-talk
• E – Envision…the mentally tough version of yourself

Simply playing more tennis without a solid mental performance plan will only reinforce your current level of play. To truly develop mental toughness, you must consciously shift your approach to your mindset. This deliberate transformation will empower you to break free from unproductive patterns and achieve the results you seek.

In summary, the journey to becoming a mentally tough tennis player involves embracing balance and understanding the vital connection to self-worth. By implementing the BALANCE framework, you can create a roadmap for your mental toughness plan and unlock your full potential on the court. As we continue to explore the nuances of mental toughness in future blog posts, I invite you to step into this transformative journey and strive for excellence, both in tennis and in life.

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Train Like a Pro: The Wilson Gear Advantage at Wilson Tennis Camp

At Wilson Tennis Camps, we don't just teach the game—we immerse our campers in the highest quality tennis experience possible. One of the standout benefits of attending a Wilson Tennis Camp is the opportunity to train with premium Wilson gear, the same equipment used by some of the greatest players in the history of the sport. From racquets to tennis balls, Wilson's legacy of excellence is woven into every aspect of our camps.

A Brand Synonymous with Excellence

For over a century, Wilson has been at the forefront of sports innovation, earning its reputation as one of the most trusted names in tennis. With a commitment to performance and quality, Wilson has been the choice of countless professional athletes, including tennis legends Serena Williams and Roger Federer. Wilson's influence extends beyond tennis as well, serving as the official game ball provider for major sports like basketball and football. The brand's unparalleled history of craftsmanship ensures that when you step onto the court with Wilson gear, you're using equipment designed for champions.

Train Like the Pros

When you attend a Wilson Tennis Camp, you'll have access to the latest Wilson racquets, strings, and accessories, giving you the same tools that top players use to elevate their game. Wilson racquets are engineered for power, control, and precision, making them a go-to choice for elite athletes worldwide. Our campers get to experience firsthand how high-performance gear can enhance their skills, improve their confidence, and maximize their potential.

The Official Ball of Champions

Wilson's impact on the sport goes beyond racquets—Wilson is also the official game ball of the US Open and the NCAA, ensuring that players at every level are training and competing with the best. Using top-tier balls during training helps our campers develop a feel for professional play, setting them up for success whether they're preparing for tournaments or simply refining their technique.

An Unmatched Tennis Camp Experience

Choosing a Wilson Tennis Camp means choosing excellence. Our campers not only receive world-class coaching and training but also the unique advantage of playing with Wilson's premier tennis gear. Each camper gets to demo Wilson racquets and experience the latest technology in tennis equipment. Whether campers are picking up a racquet for the first time, or looking for a more professional feel, they all get a chance to train with the most used racquets among collegiate players. A popular racquet our campers love to try is the Wilson Blade. Its design is more specific to power players, including pros like Serena Williams, Milos Raonic, Simona Halep and many more. Many of our camps give players a chance to walk away with some high value prizes, such as a Wilson racquet, equipment bag, overgrips, and other essential gear for the game. Plus, as a special bonus, every camper receives a free Wilson T-shirt, making them a part of the Wilson Tennis family!

Whether you're just starting your journey in tennis or looking to take your game to the next level, Wilson Tennis Camps provide an unparalleled opportunity to train like a pro.

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Top 5 Reasons to Send Your Advanced Player to Wilson Tennis Camps

For parents of dedicated tennis players, finding the right training environment is essential for your child's growth in the sport. Wilson Tennis Camps provide the perfect setting for advanced players to refine their skills, gain high-level coaching, and prepare for competitive play. Whether your athlete is striving to dominate high school tennis or aiming for collegiate-level competition, here are five key reasons why Wilson Tennis Camps are the ideal choice.

1. Elite Skill Development

At Wilson Tennis Camps, advanced players receive structured training designed to elevate their game. From refining technique on groundstrokes and serves to enhancing footwork and match strategy, our expert coaching staff tailors instruction to push each player's limits. Through high-intensity drills and match play, campers experience real progress in their skills and overall performance.

2. Professional Coaching from Elite College-Level Experts

One of the standout features of Wilson Tennis Camps is the opportunity to train with some of the best college coaches in the country. Our camps are led by NCAA coaches from top programs, many of whom have developed elite collegiate and professional players. These experienced coaches bring firsthand knowledge of high-level tennis, offering advanced tactical training, mental strategies, and insights into what it takes to compete at the next level. Campers receive personalized feedback that can make a significant difference in their development and aspirations for collegiate tennis.

3. Competitive Training in a Fun and Motivating Environment

Wilson Tennis Camps strike the perfect balance between intense training and an enjoyable camp experience. Players train hard but also build camaraderie with fellow athletes, making the learning process both challenging and rewarding. The supportive yet competitive environment keeps players engaged and pushes them to reach new heights.

4. Competitive Match Play Opportunities

For serious competitors looking to sharpen their match experience, some Wilson Tennis Camp locations offer Match Play Camps specifically designed for advanced players. These camps focus on strategy, point construction, and high-level competition, providing valuable experience that translates directly to USTA and high school matches. With structured match play, video analysis, and on-court coaching, players develop the confidence and skills needed to excel in tournaments and beyond.

Even at locations that do not offer dedicated Match Play Camps, all Wilson Tennis Camp participants experience plenty of match play opportunities throughout the week. Players are paired based on age and ability to ensure competitive and challenging match experiences, allowing them to test their skills in a real-game setting. No matter which camp they attend, advanced players will leave with improved match play confidence and a stronger competitive mindset.

5. Building a Lifelong Passion for the Game

For many players, summer camp is a turning point in their tennis journey. The immersive experience of training, playing, and competing at a high level helps instill a deep love for the game. Whether their goal is collegiate tennis or a lifetime of playing, Wilson Tennis Camps create a lasting impact on each player's relationship with the sport.

Parent Testimonials

Parents of advanced players have praised the impact of Wilson Tennis Camps on their children's development:

"Great camp and gave my child the skill set he needed to be able to be a better tennis player, plus he had fun!"
— Lake P., Parent 

"Our daughter loves this tennis camp. The coaches are great and the level of tennis the kids play is a nice competitive level."
— Sofia B-G., Parent

"Great staff, excellent programming, and nice facilities!"
— Shane B., Parent

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If your advanced player is ready to take their game to the next level, Wilson Tennis Camps offer the coaching, training, and competitive edge they need. Explore our locations and register today.

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Top 5 Reasons to Send Your Beginner to Wilson Tennis Camps

Are you looking for the perfect way to introduce your child to tennis? Wilson Tennis Camps provide a fun, structured, and professional environment where beginners can develop their skills and fall in love with the game. Here are the top five reasons why Wilson Tennis Camp is the best place for young players to start their tennis journey.

1. Skill Development from the Ground Up

At Wilson Tennis Camps, we focus on building a strong foundation. Our expert coaches break down fundamental skills—such as forehands, backhands, volleys, and serves—into easy-to-learn steps. Beginners will also work on footwork and coordination, ensuring they develop the essential techniques needed to progress in the sport. Whether your child has never picked up a racquet or has minimal experience, our structured lessons provide the perfect introduction to the game.

2. Expert Coaching with Personalized Instruction

One of the biggest advantages of attending Wilson Tennis Camps is access to top-tier coaching. Our experienced coaches provide individualized attention, ensuring that each camper receives feedback tailored to their skill level. This personalized approach helps beginners build confidence while learning the correct techniques from the start, preventing bad habits that can be difficult to unlearn later. Even if your camper has never picked up a racket, they get a chance to learn from the pros at Wilson alongside other beginners just like them.

3. A Fun and Engaging Learning Environment

Learning tennis should be exciting, and we make sure it is! Our camps blend instruction with engaging activities and games to keep young players motivated. Drills are designed to be interactive and enjoyable, allowing beginners to develop skills without feeling overwhelmed. By making learning fun, we help campers stay enthusiastic and eager to improve.

4. Socialization and Friendships on the Court

Tennis is not just about playing—it's about connecting with others who share the same passion. At Wilson Tennis Camps, beginners will meet new friends, engage in team activities, and develop important social skills in a supportive setting. Whether rallying with a new partner or playing fun group games, campers build friendships that often extend beyond the court.

5. Fostering a Lifelong Love for Tennis

Our goal is to create an experience that inspires a lasting passion for the game. By making tennis fun and accessible, we help beginners see the sport as more than just a game—it becomes an activity they enjoy and want to continue long after camp ends. A positive first experience can be the spark that turns a beginner into a lifelong player.

Sending your beginner to Wilson Tennis Camp is an investment in their athletic and personal growth. With professional coaching, structured skill development, a fun environment, and the opportunity to make friends, your child will gain confidence on and off the court. Sign up today and watch your young player take their first steps toward a lifetime of tennis enjoyment!

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Serving Up More at Skidmore College

Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camps is excited to announce the launch of our newest camp location at Skidmore College, nestled in the charming city of Saratoga Springs, New York. Starting July 14, 2025, this camp promises an incredible experience for players of all skill levels.

Why Skidmore College?

Skidmore College offers the perfect setting for a premier tennis camp. Campers will train at the McCaffery-Wagman Tennis and Wellness Center, a state-of-the-art facility that has just opened its doors in January 2025, featuring:

• Eight lighted outdoor tennis courts for daytime and evening play.
• Four indoor courts, ensuring uninterrupted training regardless of weather conditions.

This outstanding venue provides an ideal environment for skill development, fun, and competition.

Meet the Coach

Our camps are led by some of the most dedicated and experienced coaches in the tennis world. At Skidmore College, you'll train under Coach Curt Speerschneider, the head coach of Skidmore's highly regarded tennis program. With over 20 years of coaching experience, Coach Speerschneider is known for his ability to bring out the best in every player, focusing on both individual growth and team success.

Camp Dates and Details

The Skidmore Tennis Camp will offer full-day programs for boys and girls ages 6-18. Whether your child is picking up a racquet for the first time or refining advanced skills, this camp is designed to meet every player's needs.

Camp Dates:

• Week 1: July 14–18, 2025

What's Included:

• Daily on-court instruction tailored to individual skill levels.
• Technical drills focused on footwork, forehands, backhands, serves, and volleys.
• Match play strategies, including doubles and singles techniques.
• Off-court activities and fitness training to improve overall performance.

More Than Tennis in Saratoga Springs

At Skidmore College, the learning goes beyond the court. Campers will engage in team-building activities, skill-focused games, and opportunities to form lifelong friendships.

Outside of camp, Saratoga Springs provides a dynamic backdrop for families to explore. Known for its historic charm, Saratoga Springs boasts attractions like the Saratoga Race Course and the Saratoga Performing Arts Center. Visitors can also enjoy local dining, parks, and museums, making it a memorable summer destination for the whole family.

Join Us This Summer!

Don't miss out on the chance to train at one of the finest facilities in the country, under the guidance of an exceptional coaching team. Whether you're looking to sharpen your skills or take your game to the next level, Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camps at Skidmore College is the place to be.

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New Camp, Same Fun at University of Puget Sound

We are thrilled to announce the launch of our newest Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camp at the University of Puget Sound in Tacoma, Washington! This exciting addition offers young tennis enthusiasts an exceptional opportunity to develop their skills in a dynamic and supportive environment.

Comprehensive Camp Options

Our University of Puget Sound camp offers flexible scheduling to accommodate various needs. Campers can choose between full-day and half-day programs:

• Session I: August 8-10, 2025
• Session II: August 11-15, 2025
• Session III: August 18-22, 2025

These options cater to players of all skill levels, from beginners to advanced competitors, ensuring personalized attention and tailored instruction.

State-of-the-Art Facilities

Campers will train at the renowned Tennis Pavilion, which features six indoor tennis courts, providing a premier setting for players to hone their abilities regardless of weather conditions. The facility is recognized as one of the elite court surfaces in the Northwest Conference, ensuring a top-notch experience for all participants.

Expert Coaching and Engaging Activities

Under the leadership of Matt Simons, the Head Tennis Coach at the University of Puget Sound, campers will benefit from an exceptional coaching experience. Simons brings a wealth of expertise and a proven track record of success. The 2024-25 season marked his seventh year leading the Puget Sound men's and women's tennis programs.

In his first year as head coach, Simons led the women's team to a postseason berth in the Northwest Conference Tournament, with Lisa Owen and Nicole Bouche earning All-NWC honors. A native of the Pacific Northwest, Simons has a rich competitive history, including participation in the USTA Zone Team Championships and a collegiate career at Pacific Lutheran, where he advanced to the second round in both singles and doubles at the NAIA National Championships.

In addition to Simons' leadership, the coaching staff at the Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camp at Puget Sound is among the strongest and most respected in the nation. Comprised of top collegiate coaches and players, the staff is carefully selected for their ability to teach and inspire young players in a supportive, engaging, and professional environment.

Under the guidance of UPS Head Tennis Coach Matt Simons and his staff, campers will engage in:

• Advanced teaching techniques
• Intensive drill work
• Game and match play

Our structured curriculum emphasizes both skill development and enjoyment, fostering a fun and competitive atmosphere that encourages growth and a love for the game.

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Whether aiming to learn the game, improve existing skills, or prepare for competitive play, the Wilson Collegiate Tennis Camp at the University of Puget Sound is the perfect place for young athletes to elevate their tennis experience. We look forward to welcoming you to our camp this summer!

For more information and to register, please visit our University of Puget Sound camp page.

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Unlock the "Secrets of the Pros" with Coach Marc Lucero

This winter, Wilson Tennis Camps is thrilled to launch an exciting new program: Secrets of the Pros, featuring renowned coach Marc Lucero. With a wealth of experience coaching at the highest levels of tennis, Lucero brings unparalleled expertise, making this camp a must for any aspiring player looking to elevate their game.

Meet Marc Lucero

Marc Lucero has been a fixture on the professional tennis circuit since 2013, working with a roster of elite players. His impressive coaching career includes guiding:

• Amanda Anisimova (2023-2024): Helped Anisimova return from a sabbatical to reach the 4th round of the Australian Open in just her second event back.
• Steve Johnson (2019-2023): USC legend and challenger winner, reaching the 3rd round at Wimbledon 2022 under Lucero's guidance.
• Shelby Rogers (2014-2019): Achieved a career-high ranking of No. 48 during their time together.
• Genie Bouchard (2013): Worked with the former Wimbledon finalist during her early professional years.
• Alison Riske (2014): Partnered with Riske during key stages of her career.

Before his time on the pro tour, Lucero honed his coaching craft with the United States Tennis Association Player Development program and as an assistant coach at Princeton University. Having worked with national and collegiate champions like Emma Higuchi and Nicole Gibbs, you can expect expert coaching and individualized instruction for your child at his clinics.

Why Attend "Secrets of the Pros"?

In its inaugural year, Marc Lucero's Secrets of the Pros Winter Camp Program promises an exceptional learning experience in a competitive and dynamic environment. Here's what makes this camp a standout:

• Top-Level Coaching: Directed by Lucero himself and the coaching staff of USC's men's tennis teams, offering personalized instruction for players of all skill levels.
• Comprehensive Skill Development: Campers receive advanced teaching techniques, intensive drills, and engaging match play tailored to their needs—beginners focus on fundamentals, while advanced players hone strategies and point construction.
• Tailored Grouping: Players are organized into small groups by age and ability, ensuring effective learning at every level.
• World-Class Facilities: Held at USC's David X. Marks Tennis Stadium, which boasts cutting-edge amenities like team suites, training rooms, and a multi-purpose space. The stadium's recent upgrades, including shaded spectator areas and the Buntmann Family Tennis Center, provide a state-of-the-art training and competition environment befitting one of the nation's premier tennis programs.
• Specialized Clinics
  • Defending and Changing Speeds (Dec 14): Master the critical skill of defending, including neutralizing opponents, playing from difficult court positions, and changing rally tempos to disrupt rhythm.
  • Weapon Development (Dec 21): Focus on creating powerful shots like the inside-out forehand and down-the-line backhand, incorporating footwork and shot integration for a stronger overall game.

This camp is perfect for players ages 9-18 looking to elevate their game under the guidance of world-class coaching in an elite tennis setting. Don't miss this opportunity to take your tennis skills to the next level!

Join Us This Winter

Don't miss the chance to experience Secrets of the Pros at Wilson Tennis Camps. Spots are limited, so secure yours today and take the next step in your tennis journey with Coach Marc Lucero.

Register for December 14: Defending and Changing Speeds

Register for December 21: Weapon Development

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